Affirmations for Black Girls

In this episode, Tyra is reflecting on one of the most transformative chapters of her life: living alone. After five years in her apartment, she reflects on how having a space that is completely her own has taught her more than just independence. It’s taught her what she likes, what she needs, what she won’t compromise on, and what she actually wants from a partner. Because the goal of living alone isn’t to prove that you don’t need anybody. It’s to know that you can take care of yourself and still want somebody to do life with. Tyra also talks about dating while living alone, the “single tax,” hyper-independence, and why knowing yourself before sharing your life with someone else can change everything. This week’s Affirmation is: “I trust myself to build a life that feels good to me.” 3 Biggest Takeaways Living alone teaches you who you are. When you’re not constantly accommodating someone else, you get the space to discover your preferences, routines, boundaries, and what genuinely makes your life feel…

In this week's episode, Tyra is recapping her weekend at Essence Festival and reflecting on why this event feels like so much more than a festival. From being back home in Louisiana to finally meeting internet friends in real life, Essence Fest reminded her just how powerful, creative, and extraordinary Black women are. It's a conversation about community, identity, and the kind of spaces that make you feel seen. This episode is a love letter to Black women—and a reminder to celebrate who you are. This week’s Affirmation is: “I love the skin I'm in.” Recommendation of the Day: Shark Chill Pill Fan Community Connection Links Sign up for the Community Newsletter!: www.tyrathecreative.com/podcast Join the AFBG Book Club: https://tyrathecreative.myflodesk.com/xkz6bzvn29 Shop the AFBG Merch!: http://tyrathecreative.com/merch Letters From Listeners Form: https://forms.gle/yqwdsBuRBjXQm9Xw7 Subscriber Survey: https://forms.gle/m4AD2YaYbGhd8gEv6 Resources Shop Tyra’s Favorites:…

Have you ever watched a movie and realized it wasn’t just entertaining you… it was reflecting parts of your own life back to you? In today’s episode, Tyra shares the love lessons she took away from You Me and Tuscany, from realizing that love should feel safe and peaceful, to understanding that the right love doesn’t require you to become someone else to receive it. This conversation is a reminder that love isn’t just about being chosen… it’s also about choosing what truly aligns with you. This week’s Affirmation is: “I deserve a love that feels safe.” 3 Biggest Takeaways Love that’s meant for you won’t constantly leave you confused or emotionally exhausted The right love allows you to be fully yourself, not a performance version of who you think you need to be Attraction alone isn’t enough. Discernment and alignment matter too Community Connection Links Sign up for the Community Newsletter!: www.tyrathecreative.com/podcast Join the AFBG Book Club: https://tyrathecreative.myflodesk.com/xkz6bzvn29 Shop the…

In today's Rewind Episode, we revist when Tyra experienced a great loss, the matriarch of her family, Grandma Willie Mae. She talks about the powerful journey of navigating grief and embracing healing in this heartfelt episode. This week’s affirmation is: “My Life is Beautiful and worth being lived to its fullness.” Biggest Takeaways: Honoring Life's Fullness: Tyra emphasizes that grief isn't solely tied to the loss of a loved one. It's a complex emotion that can arise from various life experiences, including the passing of cherished dreams and societal challenges. Affirmations as Tools of Resilience: In times of grief, Tyra introduces the affirmation "My Life is Beautiful and worth being lived to its fullness." She explores how affirmations act as tools for resilience, helping us reframe our perspectives and navigate the healing process. Through this lens, we can find beauty in the midst of pain, and by acknowledging the challenges, we pave the way for transformation. Embracing the Journey of Healing: Tyra…

Girl to girl… I hope the love you pray for finds you soon. Not the surface-level kind. Not the kind that looks good but leaves you confused. I’m talking about the kind of love that lets you exhale. The kind that feels steady, safe, and certain. The kind that doesn’t make you question how you show up. In this episode, Tyra is having a real, honest conversation about being in the in-between — that space where you’re no longer going back to what hurt you, but you haven’t yet stepped into the love you desire. This week’s Affirmation is: “I will not sabatoge what I prayed for.” Tyra opens up about: Letting go of “almost” and “potential” Why going backwards is not an option when God already pulled you out The difference between love and emotional attachment How inconsistency creates confusion (and why that’s not love) Trusting that your heart isn’t “too much”—it’s intentional Community Connection Links Sign up for the Community Newsletter!: www.tyrathecreative.com/podcast Join the AFBG Book Club:…

Have you ever tried to make something work so badly… only for it to fall apart anyway? In this episode, Tyra talks about the uncomfortable but necessary truth: sometimes the reason it didn’t work out is because God wouldn’t let you settle. Whether it’s relationships that almost made it, opportunities that looked good on paper, friendships that slowly faded, or spaces that felt “good enough” but not aligned — this conversation is about divine disruption. The closed doors. The redirection. The feeling of “why is this so hard?” When you’re just trying to make something stick. This week’s Affirmation is: “God, raise my standards to match Your promises.” Tyra unpacks: The difference between contentment and settling Trusting redirection, even when it bruises your ego Letting go of “almost” in order to receive alignment If you’ve been frustrated because nothing mediocre seems to last in your life… maybe that’s the point. This episode is your reminder that not everything that leaves is a loss. Sometimes it’s…

In this episode, Tyra is giving y’all a real life update and sharing where she's been. She's officially a new dog mom...again! What she thought would simply be “aww, cuddles and companionship” has turned into responsibility, structure, interrupted sleep, emotional growth, and a whole new level of self-awareness. Tyra needed companionship. She needed something to nurture. What she didn’t expect was how much it would stretch her. We’re talking about: The shock of sudden responsibility How your life really changes when someone depends on you The identity shift that comes with becoming a caregiver Why companionship sometimes comes with growing pains Learning to adjust when the blessing feels overwhelming This episode is honest. It’s tender. It’s a little “what did I just do?” and a lot of “okay… we’re growing.” If you’re in a season where your life just shifted, whether it’s a new pet, new relationship, new job, new city, or a new version of yourself, this conversation is for you. Because sometimes the answered…

What happens when you have faith in your prayers… but fear in your posture? 2026 marks Season 5 of the Affirmations for Black Girls Podcast, and this year feels different. Last season was about stepping into “Big Deal” energy — moving boldly, raising standards, and owning every room. But this season? It’s about what happens after the confidence. It’s about releasing control. After realizing she was carrying faith in her prayers but fear in her posture, Tyra is entering a new era — one rooted in alignment, surrender, and deeper trust in God’s timing. This season explores high-functioning anxiety, Type A tendencies, the pressure of personal timelines, and the quiet fear of “what if it doesn’t happen for me?” It’s about believing that what God has planned isn’t smaller than your dreams — it’s exceedingly, abundantly above them. No more gripping the wheel. No more negotiating with God. No more mistaking control for responsibility. Season 5 is about being anchored — in faith, in identity, and in the truth that…

No one ever said letting go and surrendering to your path was easy, but it is well worth it. On the other side of releasing what no longer serves you is inner peace, joy, and healing. In this REWIND episode, Tyra shares 25 affirmations for learning to let go. What are you holding onto that’s no longer serving you? Have you learned to release and let go? Let these affirmations be your guide. 25 Affirmations for Letting Go I am ready to accept that I have to move on. I am ready to put my past behind me. I release relationships that no longer serve my highest good. I will take deep breaths and let go of all stress and worry. I will free my spirit to find love and friendships. I will not hold on to regrets or things I can no longer control. I release the past and and embrace the present moment As I forgive myself, it becomes easier to forgive others. I have made peace with my past. My mind is set free. The things I went through do not define who I am. I release all self-doubt. I am free to be me. I forgive…

In this Rewind, Tyra came across an Instagram post that was highlighting Relationship Green Flags! We always put a special emphasis on red flags, but what if we focused on the positives? Yes, there are tons of relationship red flags we should watch out for, but what if we focused on finding the beauty in what we did want versus what we didn’t? Now, in this episode, Tyra isn't saying to forget about red flags, because they are important too, but that is only half of the story! After listening to the episode, write down some relationship green flags you want to pay special attention to. What are some green flags you want to focus on in addition to the ones we talk about in the episode? This week's Affirmation “I trust that I will make good choices in romantic relationships” Resources Green Flags Worksheet: https://tyrathecreative.com/creative-worksheets The IG post: https://www.instagram.com/p/Canyt8VPPWK/ DONT FORGET ABOUT AMAZON PRIME DAY Amazon Prime 30 Day Free Trial EBT - Amazon Prime Free Trial My Prime…

Sometimes we just do not have the words to pray. In this Rewind episode of Pep Talk Wednesday, your Tyra explores the pocket prayers - those short, ready-made prayers that come in clutch when words escape us. Join Tyra as she takes you on a journey to discover the power of these handy prayers, offering comfort, guidance, and a sense of connection in those moments when you need it most. Worship Playlist: “Let’s Worship” & Vibe With Jesus Playlist Today’s Challenge: Create your own pocket prayer. Prayers from the Episode: Lord, help me to know when it's time to make moves, when it's time to stay planted, and when it is time to uproot. Help me to recognize the doors you’ve opened for me, and to walk through them with Your confidence. Dear God, please remove any and everything in my life that wasn't sent by you. Please give me the discernment to understand the difference between your blessings and things that were sent to be lessons. Heal my heart from any past hurts, trauma, and pain. Please open my heart to be…

In today’s PEP TALK, Tyra’s reminding us that as we close out the year, we’re breaking down how to reclaim your time, energy, peace, and start 2026 with boundaries that actually stick. Pep Talk Challenge: Choose YOU: Choose one thing that’s for you and actually do it. Defeating Doubt Playlist: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/defeating-doubt/pl.u-PDb408VtJyb1Po Community Connection Links Sign up for the Community Newsletter!: www.tyrathecreative.com/podcast Join the AFBG Book Club: https://tyrathecreative.myflodesk.com/xkz6bzvn29 Shop the AFBG Merch!: http://tyrathecreative.com/merch Letters From Listeners Form: https://forms.gle/yqwdsBuRBjXQm9Xw7 Subscriber Survey: https://forms.gle/m4AD2YaYbGhd8gEv6 Resources Shop Tyra’s Favorites: https://www.amazon.com/shop/tyrathecreative Here’s a free trial of ClassPass (with 20 bonus credits!): https://shop.tyrathecreative.com/classpass Listen to Lofi Beats for Deep Focus: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pfBhamgkCww&t=2222s Wanna give therapy a try? Use BetterHelp:…

Playing small is costly, and this episode is your permission slip to stop shrinking, stop apologizing for your brilliance, and step fully into your boldness. Tyra breaks down what it means to take up space, trust your value, and carry Big Deal Energy into 2026. If you’re ready to step fully into your life, show up unapologetically, and leave behind hesitation and self-doubt, this episode serves as your roadmap. This week’s Affirmation is: “I am the main character in my story.” 3 Biggest Takeaways Taking up space starts with YOU: You can’t expect the world to see your worth if you don’t first honor your own presence. Boldness isn’t always loud: Sometimes it’s internal, quiet, and about choosing yourself even when no one is clapping. Imposter syndrome can’t stop you: Name it, document your wins, reframe failure, and visualize yourself confidently taking up space. Community Connection Links Sign up for the Community Newsletter!: www.tyrathecreative.com/podcast Join the AFBG Book Club:…

Ever stop and really ask yourself the questions you usually avoid? In this episode, Tyra dives deep into the uncomfortable but necessary self-reflection that comes at the end of the year. She explores mindset, relationships, boundaries, and visions for the future, all with the goal of entering the next chapter uncluttered, honest, and empowered. This week’s Affirmation is: “Being honest with myself is my top priority.” 3 Biggest Takeaways Reflection is a form of self-respect. Growth always lives on the other side of tension. Your future self deserves an honest present you. Community Connection Links Sign up for the Community Newsletter!: www.tyrathecreative.com/podcast Join the AFBG Book Club: https://tyrathecreative.myflodesk.com/xkz6bzvn29 Shop the AFBG Merch!: http://tyrathecreative.com/merch Letters From Listeners Form: https://forms.gle/yqwdsBuRBjXQm9Xw7 Subscriber Survey: https://forms.gle/m4AD2YaYbGhd8gEv6 Resources Shop Tyra’s Favorites: https://www.amazon.com/shop/tyrathecreative Here’s a free trial…

What does it really mean when the pain you’ve been brushing off suddenly has a name? In Part Two, Tyra and Dr. Janelle dive deeper into the conditions so many women silently live with: endometriosis, vaginismus, vulvodynia, pelvic tension, and the emotional stress that makes everything worse. They also explore how movement, breath, and nervous system regulation play a role in healing. Takeaways: Your body keeps score — and it also tries to tell the truth. Healing isn’t about pushing through; it’s about paying attention. When you understand the “why,” you can finally start to care for yourself differently. Listen to Part 1: https://stream.redcircle.com/episodes/4c631175-374d-4bc6-87f9-9eaade2929b1/stream.mp3 Watch Part 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oDb1vwxGXOs&t=1s ✨ Connect with Dr. Janelle Fredrick Follow Dr. Janelle and support her work: 1:1 virtual care-https://www.vaginarehabdoctor.com/ Dr. Janelle’s podcast- https://www.vaginarehabdoctor.com/my-podcast/ Instagram-…

Are you ready to start falling in love with your life exactly as it is? In this episode, Tyra breaks down the practical, realistic ways to romanticize your everyday and find joy in the ordinary. No marble countertops, no perfect aesthetic, just intentional moments that make your life feel softer, richer, and more yours. Whether you’re single, building your career, or just craving a little more delight in your daily life, this episode will guide you toward creating a life that truly loves you back. This week’s Affirmation is: “I deserve a life that FEELS good.” 3 Biggest Takeaways Romance is a skill, not an aesthetic: Not about trends or perfection, it’s about paying attention and savoring tiny moments. Micro-rituals transform routines into joy: Small, intentional acts—lighting a candle, playing your favorite song, savoring coffee—reset your nervous system and elevate your mood. Your life is rich and worthy of love right now: You don’t need anyone or anything else to validate it. Presence, intention, and…

Have you ever felt like you’ve outgrown your hometown, but still carry it in your heart? In this episode, Tyra reflects on the delicate balance of loving where you’re from while stepping into who you’re becoming. From creating home moments in new spaces to redefining traditions and embracing growth, she shares personal stories, lessons learned, and practical ways to feel connected even when you’re far from home. This week’s Affirmation is: “It is safe for me to outgrow what once felt familiar.” 3 Biggest Takeaways Reflection is a form of self-respect: acknowledging your roots while making space for who you’re becoming. Growth often requires leaving comfort behind, and that’s okay. Outgrowing a place doesn’t mean abandoning it. Home is a feeling, not a zip code, it can live in memories, traditions, and the life you intentionally build for yourself. Community Connection Links Sign up for the Community Newsletter!: www.tyrathecreative.com/podcast Join the AFBG Book Club:…

Why do so many Black women get told their pain is “normal” when it’s anything but? In this episode, Tyra sits down with pelvic floor therapist Dr. Janelle Frederick to break down the symptoms so many of us have been taught to ignore — from chronic cramps to painful intimacy to stress responses we don’t even realize we’re carrying. Together, they dig into how hormones, stress, and the pelvic floor all connect, and why understanding your body is the first step to real relief. Takeaways: Listening to your body is an act of self-respect. Your pain has a source — and it deserves attention. Knowing what’s happening in your body is a form of empowerment. Enter the Holiday Giveaway (ends Dec 10, 2025): www.tyrathecreative.com/podcast ✨ Connect with Dr. Janelle Fredrick 1:1 virtual care-https://www.vaginarehabdoctor.com/ Dr. Janelle’s podcast- https://www.vaginarehabdoctor.com/my-podcast/ Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/vaginarehabdoctor/ DIY E books & Courses-…

It’s never too late in the year for a reset. As we enter December, this episode explores how resetting your space, routine, and mindset can help you fall in love with your life again; just in time for the holiday season. From mental resets that quiet your mind, to social resets that protect your energy, to creating little rituals that make any space feel like home, even if it’s not yours, this episode is packed with practical ways to make the holidays feel grounding and restorative. This week’s Affirmation is: “My joy begins with the choices I make today.” Enter Our Christmas Giveaway - www.tyrathecreative.com/podcast 3 Biggest Takeaways Slowing down doesn’t mean you’re lazy or falling behind. Even the smallest actions can reignite joy. You can start fresh any time. Stocking Stuffers Nerds Clusters Cozy Socks Burts Bees Sweet Peach - https://go.magik.ly/ml/3bisi/ Sol De Jinero Perfume - https://go.magik.ly/ml/3ad9t/ Community Connection Links Sign up for the Community Newsletter!:…

Are you truly a good friend? Answer honestly. In this episode, Tyra dives into the complexities of friendship, how to evaluate your role, grow from evolving connections, and intentionally cultivate meaningful bonds. She shares personal stories about childhood friends, new friendships in adulthood, and the lessons she’s learned about showing up and keeping your side of the street clean. This week’s Affirmation is: “I am open to giving and receiving the kind of friendship that feels like home.” 3 Biggest Takeaways Friendships have levels and seasons—acquaintances, seasonal friends, core/inner circle, mirror friends, and distant friends—and understanding these helps you navigate your energy and expectations. Being a good friend starts with self-reflection: emotional availability, consistency, honesty, reciprocity, and accountability. The small, surface-level debates (splitting the check, RSVPs, birthdays) matter less than being intentional, communicative, and showing up authentically. Community Connection Links…

In this week’s Pep Talk Wednesday, Tyra gets honest about what it meant to go back home for the first time in a long time — not for a quick visit, but for an extended stay that her spirit didn’t even know it was craving. This episode explores the quiet magic of slowing down, stepping away from the noise, and letting your roots remind you who you are. From porch conversations and grocery store rides with her momma to the familiar sound of cicadas and family showing up unannounced (like always!), Tyra reflects on how going home helped her breathe again, reconnect with her identity, and remember the grounded version of herself she hadn’t visited in a while. Pep Talk Challenge: Do one thing this week that reconnects you with your roots. Community Connection Links Sign up for the Community Newsletter!: www.tyrathecreative.com/podcast Join the AFBG Book Club: https://tyrathecreative.myflodesk.com/xkz6bzvn29 Shop the AFBG Merch!: http://tyrathecreative.com/merch Letters From Listeners Form:…

From insecurities about skin tone, body, personality, or quirks, to learning how to show up fully and be seen. In this episode,Tyra dives into the power of embracing the parts of ourselves we once criticized. She shares her personal journey of self-love and confidence. Learn practical tools like Dopamine Menus, journaling, self-affirmations, and celebrating small wins to start honoring your worth and shining unapologetically. This week’s Affirmation is: “I am worthy of being seen and celebrated exactly as I am.” 3 Biggest Takeaways Insecurities aren’t flaws, they’re signals: They highlight the parts of ourselves that need love, attention, and celebration. Being seen starts with small, intentional steps: Journaling, Dopamine Menus, and accepting compliments help train your brain to recognize your value. Representation and self-acknowledgment are healing: Celebrating yourself, your quirks, and your uniqueness rewires confidence and joy, even in the face of societal pressures or internalized doubt. Get the…

Perfectionism isn’t productivity; it’s fear in disguise. In today’s episode, Tyra talks about releasing the pressure of getting everything right the first time and embracing progress over perfection. We break down the truth about perfectionism, how it’s often fear dressed up as productivity, discipline, or control, and explore how starting messy can unlock your next-level potential if you have a little audacity. This week’s Affirmation is: “I give myself permission to start messy & grow along the way.” 3 Biggest Takeaways Perfectionism is fear in disguise. It shows up dressed as productivity, discipline, control, or even “doing your best,” but underneath it’s really just fear: fear of failure, judgment, or not being enough. Recognizing that is the first step to freeing yourself. Done is better than perfect. Growth, learning, and creativity happen in the messy middle. The more you start, stumble, and iterate, the stronger and more confident you become. Waiting for perfection is the enemy of progress. Learning…

We are not meant to stay rooted in the same soil forever. Every time you try something new or imagine a better version of your life, you’re training your brain to see new possibilities. Pep Talk Challenge: This week, uproot yourself (just a little) and try something new that scares or excites you. Community Connection Links Sign up for the Community Newsletter!: www.tyrathecreative.com/podcast Join the AFBG Book Club: https://tyrathecreative.myflodesk.com/xkz6bzvn29 Shop the AFBG Merch!: http://tyrathecreative.com/merch Letters From Listeners Form: https://forms.gle/yqwdsBuRBjXQm9Xw7 Subscriber Survey: https://forms.gle/m4AD2YaYbGhd8gEv6 Resources Shop Tyra’s Favorites: https://www.amazon.com/shop/tyrathecreative Here’s a free trial of ClassPass (with 20 bonus credits!): https://shop.tyrathecreative.com/classpass Listen to Lofi Beats for Deep Focus: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pfBhamgkCww&t=2222s Wanna give therapy a try? Use BetterHelp: https://rebrand.ly/6ulm6zk Try the Calm App:…

Are you waiting for the “right time” to plan your legacy? It’s easier than you think, and it starts now. In this episode, Tyra sits down with her mama, Andrea Morrison, a brilliant Estate Planning attorney, to talk about building wealth, protecting your peace, and breaking cycles for future generations. From wills and trusts to life insurance and tough family conversations, we break down practical steps anyone can take, no matter your age, relationship status, or income level. By the end of this episode, you’ll see that estate planning isn’t just legal paperwork, it’s a love letter to your family and a blueprint for stability that lasts generations. This week’s Affirmation is: “Breaking cycles doesn’t require perfection, just intention.” ✨ Connect with Andrea Morrison Follow Andrea and support her work: • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrea-v-morrison/ • Website: https://andreamorrisonlaw.com/ Do Your Parents Have an Estate Plan?…

Ever catch yourself daydreaming about your future partner and wonder if they’re out there somewhere thinking about you too? In today’s episode, Tyra leads an interactive journaling session designed to help you reflect on past relationships, clarify your needs, and dream about the love you truly deserve. Through prompts exploring lessons learned, love languages, and envisioning your future partner, you’ll get the tools to write your way toward clarity, confidence, and the kind of partnership that honors your heart. This week’s Affirmation is: “I deserve a partner who respects my heart, mind, and soul.” Download the E-Journal here: https://we.tl/t-IcjoGOpmzk Community Connection Links Sign up for the Community Newsletter!: www.tyrathecreative.com/podcast Join the AFBG Book Club: https://tyrathecreative.myflodesk.com/xkz6bzvn29 Shop the AFBG Merch!: http://tyrathecreative.com/merch Letters From Listeners Form: https://forms.gle/yqwdsBuRBjXQm9Xw7 Subscriber Survey: https://forms.gle/m4AD2YaYbGhd8gEv6 Resources…

In today’s PEP TALK, Tyra, reminds us that collecting isn’t just a childhood phase, it's a practice that can bring excitement, connection, and creativity back into our adult lives. Whether it’s plants, vinyl records, or salt & pepper shakers, starting a collection can be a small, powerful way to add fun and meaning to your days. Pep Talk Challenge: Start, or rediscover, a collection that excites you; just one item. Then, share it with us online and tag @affirmationsforblackgirls. Resources Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://shop.tyrathecreative.com/classpass Join the AFBG Book Club: https://tyrathecreative.myflodesk.com/xkz6bzvn29 Alexis’ ‘Feeling My Shelf’ Newsletter: https://www.feelingmyshelfnewsletter.com/ 50 side quests to do this year - https://we.tl/t-gmLxjREKx4 Listen to the For Life’s Rainy Day Playlist Wanna give therapy a try? Use BetterHelp: https://rebrand.ly/6ulm6zk Try The Calm App…

In this episode, Tyra explores the timeless power of storytelling and why it matters now more than ever. From family photo albums to recipes passed down like secret codes, stories are the glue that keeps our culture, creativity, and connections alive. She shares how journaling, audiobooks, and oral history not only preserve memories but also serve as a gift for future generations. This episode is a reminder that storytime isn’t just for kids, it’s for anyone who wants to stay rooted, inspired, and in touch with what truly matters. This week’s Affirmation is: “My experiences and my voice matter.” Three Biggest Takeaways: Preserve Family and Cultural Heritage: Stories, recipes, and oral histories are irreplaceable parts of our legacy—once they’re lost, they’re gone forever. Storytelling as Self-Care and Growth: Journaling, cooking, or listening to long-form stories engages the mind, strengthens memory, and nurtures creativity. Build Community and Connection: Sharing stories, hosting casual storytelling nights,…

In today’s episode, Tyra reflects on the financial stress she carried from past relationships and how it shaped her money habits. She shares honest stories from old romances where she often found herself as the provider, and how that mindset taught her lessons about boundaries, self-worth, and reclaiming control over her finances. This episode is about letting go of guilt, closing chapters that no longer serve you, and stepping into financial confidence. This week’s Affirmation is: “I make financial choices that support my goals and well-being.” 3 Biggest Takeaways Recognize how past relationships may have created unhealthy financial patterns, and that you can change them. Financial sacrifice does not equal love—learning to set boundaries around money is an act of self-respect. Letting go of guilt and old money stress makes space for confident, intentional financial choices that serve you. Resources Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only…

Tyra dives deep into the power of therapy and mental health, breaking down the stigma that therapy means you're "broken." Instead, Tyra shows how therapy is an essential part of personal growth, empowerment, and becoming the best version of yourself. She encourages you to see therapy not as a sign of weakness, but as a tool for leveling up and embracing your full potential. Pep Talk Challenge: Embrace therapy as a tool for growth. If you’ve been considering therapy, take that first step. If you’re already in therapy, reflect on how you can dive deeper and make the most out of it. Therapy Resources Therapy For Black Girls Alma Grow Therapy Inclusive Therapists Directory: https://www.inclusivetherapists.com/ Black Female Therapists Directory: https://blackfemaletherapists.com/ Journal prompts: https://www.chloejflowers.com/blog/2020/6/8/journaling-prompts-for-black-healing Self-Love Workbook for Black Women Additional Resources Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20…

In Part 2 of this conversation, Tyra sits down with Taylor Cassidy of Fast Black History to talk about the reality of being a Black content creator. They dive into how that responsibility can bring unexpected pressure—and the ways Taylor stays grounded, joyful, and purposeful while navigating it all. This week’s Affirmation is: “I create with intention and inspire with innovation.” ✨ Connect with Taylor Cassidy Follow Taylor Cassidy and support their work: • Instagram: @taylorcassidyj • TikTok: @taylorcassidyj • YouTube: @taylorcassidyj • Pre-Order “Black History Is Your History” by Taylor Cassidy: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Black-History-Is-Your-History/Taylor-Cassidy/9781665957700?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaevEdTehgS2JqVzynP4Re16NR89OpgdZiPkizgAki8le1EWx58ZkAOJGcNmAQ_aem_49_CHV3J8vo_NRhfS6Sksg Resources Join the AFBG Book Club: https://tyrathecreative.myflodesk.com/xkz6bzvn29 Alexis’ ‘Feeling My Shelf’ Newsletter: https://www.feelingmyshelfnewsletter.com/ 50 side quests to do this year -…

In today’s episode, Tyra sits down with Taylor Cassidy of ‘Fast Black History’. They explore the reality of being Black content creators, how that responsibility can come with unexpected pressure, and ways to stay sane while staying steadfast in their purpose. This week’s Affirmation is: “I create with intention and inspire with innovation.” ✨ Connect with Taylor Cassidy Follow Taylor Cassidy and support their work: • Instagram: @taylorcassidyj • TikTok: @taylorcassidyj • YouTube: @taylorcassidyj • Pre-Order “Black History Is Your History” by Taylor Cassidy: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Black-History-Is-Your-History/Taylor-Cassidy/9781665957700?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaevEdTehgS2JqVzynP4Re16NR89OpgdZiPkizgAki8le1EWx58ZkAOJGcNmAQ_aem_49_CHV3J8vo_NRhfS6Sksg Resources Join the AFBG Book Club: https://tyrathecreative.myflodesk.com/xkz6bzvn29 Alexis’ ‘Feeling My Shelf’ Newsletter: https://www.feelingmyshelfnewsletter.com/ 50 side quests to do this year - https://we.tl/t-gmLxjREKx4 Listen to the For…

In today’s PEP TALK, Tyra breaks down the difference between “preferences” and “non-negotiables,” talks about why many settle for the bare minimum, and explores why having standards isn’t “too much”. Pep Talk Challenge: Spend time this week writing your Top 5 Non-Negotiables for any new relationship. Then, compare that list against a relationship in your life (romantic, platonic, or family) and ask: Am I honoring these, or have I compromised? Commit to holding firm in at least one boundary this week. Resources Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://shop.tyrathecreative.com/classpass Join the AFBG Book Club: https://tyrathecreative.myflodesk.com/xkz6bzvn29 Alexis’ ‘Feeling My Shelf’ Newsletter: https://www.feelingmyshelfnewsletter.com/ 50 side quests to do this year - https://we.tl/t-gmLxjREKx4 Listen to the For Life’s Rainy Day Playlist Wanna give therapy a try? Use BetterHelp: https://rebrand.ly/6ulm6zk Try…

Not every message, notification, or invite deserves your immediate attention… or any attention at all. In this episode, Tyra dives into the art of setting digital boundaries, pushing back against the unspoken pressure to always be “on,” and recognizing when group dynamics or constant availability are draining instead of nourishing. If you’ve ever felt guilty for not responding fast enough or said “yes” just to avoid being the odd one out, this conversation will give you permission to prioritize your peace, honor your limits, and find balance between connection and self-preservation. This week’s Affirmation is: “I choose to be present without being overly accessible.” 4 Biggest Takeaways You Don’t Owe Everyone Access to You or Your Time – Being constantly available isn’t the same as being dependable. Protecting your energy is an act of self-respect. Digital Boundaries Are Still Boundaries – Silence, delayed responses, or a polite “no” are valid ways of drawing the line, even in group chats and DMs. Choosing…

In today’s episode, Tyra gets real about birthdays, healing old wounds, and learning to celebrate herself in ways she never thought possible. From a 5th-grade party where no one showed up, to her therapist pushing her to reclaim her joy, to dancing the night away at her 31st surrounded by family — this conversation is all about rewriting the stories we’ve carried for too long. This week’s affirmation: “I choose to celebrate who I am becoming, not just who I’ve been.” Biggest Takeaways A reminder that sometimes the people who matter most have been showing up all along. Permission to celebrate yourself, even when it feels uncomfortable. Hope that healing is possible in the most ordinary, joy-filled moments. Grab The Artist’s Way Grab The Artist’s Way Workbook Resources Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://shop.tyrathecreative.com/classpass Join the AFBG Book Club:…

In today’s PEP TALK episode, Tyra takes some time to say THANK YOU to the Affirmations For Black Girls community. This episode is filled with community submissions highlighting listener reflections, stories, and growth. Pep Talk Challenge: This week, celebrate YOUR own growth by sharing one of your biggest wins or takeaways from the pod. It could be sending the podcast to a friend who needs some encouragement or journaling about the lessons you’ve carried into your life. For bonus points, post about your favorite episode and tag us at @affirmationsforblackgirls on Instagram or YouTube and @afbg_podcast on TikTok. Resources Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://shop.tyrathecreative.com/classpass Join the AFBG Book Club: https://tyrathecreative.myflodesk.com/xkz6bzvn29 Alexis’ ‘Feeling My Shelf’ Newsletter: https://www.feelingmyshelfnewsletter.com/ 50 side quests to do this year - https://we.tl/t-gmLxjREKx4…

In today’s episode, Tyra is joined by Miss Tyra B (aka Tyra Too!), who is the creative mind behind the AFBG Book Club and newsletter, to dive into Fake It Till You Bake It by Jamie Wesley. Together, they unpack how life’s “flops” can actually become fertile ground for joy, creativity, and second chances when we give ourselves permission to begin again. This week’s Affirmation is: “Every misstep is a setup for something sweeter.” Get The Book: Fake It Til you Bake It 3 Biggest Takeaways Baking is a lot like life. It takes patience, effort, and the courage to try again when things don’t turn out as planned. Shift your perspective from “failing” to “failing forward”. Every setback is a lesson that pushes you closer to success. Add a little sweetness into the messy parts of life. Whether it’s through gratitude, self-care, or small wins, joy is always worth baking in. Catch Up with Miss Tyra B Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/misstyrabryant/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@misstyrabryant Youtube:…

Have you ever stopped to think about the way your relationship with money is shaping your life? In today’s episode, Tyra dives deep into the hidden beliefs we carry about money, how they show up in our daily choices, and what it looks like to rewrite your money story. You’ll walk away feeling empowered to make aligned financial decisions and create a healthier, more abundant money mindset. This week’s Affirmation is: “I trust myself to manage and grow my resources wisely.” 3 Biggest Takeaways How your upbringing and environment shape your money beliefs. The subtle ways scarcity thinking can block opportunities. Practical steps to begin shifting from a survival mindset to an abundant one. Resources Join the AFBG Book Club: https://tyrathecreative.myflodesk.com/xkz6bzvn29 Alexis’ ‘Feeling My Shelf’ Newsletter: https://www.feelingmyshelfnewsletter.com/ 50 side quests to do this year - https://we.tl/t-gmLxjREKx4 Listen to the For Life’s Rainy Day Playlist Wanna give therapy a try? Use BetterHelp:…

In today’s Pep Talk, Tyra is kicking off Soft Life Summer School! Class is in session! This is a laid-back series all about learning how to show up for yourself with more ease, grace, and self-love this season. Today’s lesson is all about movement. But not the “drag yourself to the gym and hate every minute” kind. We’re talking about movement as an act of self-care, connection, and joy. Tyra shares how she retrained her brain to see exercise as a ritual she craves instead of a chore she endures, plus how small, consistent actions (and a little community support) can turn working out into something you actually look forward to. Whether it’s boxing, run club, dancing in your living room, or walking with a friend, this is your mid-week reminder that your body deserves celebration, not punishment. Try Class Pass: They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://shop.tyrathecreative.com/classpass Pep Talk Challenge: Find one way to move your body this…

What are your intentions for the month? Have you taken the time to reflect on how you can be more intentional in your daily life? In this REWIND Episode, Tyra walks you through a new exercise she just started doing, Monthly Bucket lists, in hopes of boosting her mood and getting her out of the month-long ‘funk’ she’s been in. This week’s affirmation is: “I anchor myself in daily rituals that promote calmness and clarity.” Download the Monthly Bucket List worksheet: https://tyrathecreative.com/creative-worksheets Try Epidemic Sound FOR FREE FOR 30 DAYS: https://www.epidemicsound.com/referral/bveuw0 Learn a language with me for free on Duolingo! https://shop.tyrathecreative.com/xkl Resources Listen to the For Life’s Rainy Day Playlist Wanna give therapy a try? Use BetterHelp: https://rebrand.ly/6ulm6zk Try The Calm App https://rebrand.ly/21n4tre We’re Not Really Strangers Breakup Edition Self Reflection Edition COMMUNITY CONNECTION FORM: https://forms.gle/m4AD2YaYbGhd8gEv6 Sign Up for our Newsletter! Shop the…

Third spaces — the coffee shops, gyms, libraries, and local spots where we casually connect with others — are disappearing, and it’s making us lonelier than ever. Over 60% of Americans say they feel lonely at least some of the time, and too many of us are stuck in the cycle of just home, work, and maybe church. In this Pep Talk Wednesday, Tyra shares how to break out of that cycle by exploring your city like a tourist and creating third (and even fourth!) spaces that help you feel alive and connected again. You’ll learn how to notice the beauty right where you are, how to find hidden gems you’ll actually enjoy, and how to start living a fuller life today. Pep Talk Challenge: Pick one place or activity in your city you’ve never experienced before and make a day of it. It can be a solo date, but it could also be fun to get the whole family involved. Bonus points if it costs nothing. Bring a journal. Be present. Take a picture for yourself if you want. Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an…

In this rewind episode, Tyra is here with a pep talk for the AFBG Family! Today, Tyra is diving into the world of self-care. Some of us have guilt around self-care and self-love, and after this pep talk, that is no longer your portion! Today's Challenge: Write down 3 things that make you happy RIGHT NOW Create a list of self-care activities you want to start implementing in your life Complete atleast ONE before the end of the week. Try Epidemic Sound FOR FREE FOR 30 DAYS: https://www.epidemicsound.com/referral/bveuw0 We’re Not Really Strangers Thought Provoking Cards Breakup Edition Self Reflection Edition Resources Listen to the For Life’s Rainy Day Playlist Wanna give therapy a try? Use BetterHelp: https://rebrand.ly/6ulm6zk COMMUNITY CONNECTION FORM: https://forms.gle/m4AD2YaYbGhd8gEv6 Sign Up for our Newsletter! Shop the AFBG Merch! Ask a Question Send me a message: affirmationsforblackgirls@gmail.com Our P.O Box: TYRA MORRISON P.O. BOX 674 NORTH HOLLYWOOD, CA 91603 Please Rate, Review, and Subscribe to…

Ever found yourself stuck in a situation you didn’t plan for — one that felt like an inconvenience, but turned out to be a divine reset? In today’s episode, Tyra unpacks the quiet power of being still, letting go of control, and surrendering to what life is trying to teach you when everything feels off track. There’s wisdom waiting in the pause. This week’s Affirmation is: “I trust that every detour is a part of God’s divine direction.” 3 Biggest Takeaways 1. Stillness reveals what distraction hides. Being forced to pause allows us to finally hear what our spirit’s been trying to say beneath the noise. 2. Detours are often divine redirections. Just because it wasn’t the original plan doesn’t mean it’s not the right path. 3. Trust grows in the unknown. Surrendering control invites a deeper faith — one that doesn’t rely on certainty to feel grounded. Resources Join the AFBG Book Club: https://tyrathecreative.myflodesk.com/xkz6bzvn29 Alexis’ ‘Feeling My Shelf’ Newsletter:…

What if letting go isn’t the end—but the beginning of something softer, stronger, and more honest? In today’s Pep Talk, Tyra reflects on grief, healing, and the quiet courage it takes to receive love again—drawing inspiration from Before I Let Go by Kennedy Ryan. This one’s for anyone learning to make peace with what didn’t last… and still open up to what could. Pep Talk Challenge: Write a letter to a version of yourself that you’ve outgrown. Tell her thank you. Tell her you love her. And tell her it’s okay to rest now. Resources Join the AFBG Book Club: https://tyrathecreative.myflodesk.com/xkz6bzvn29 Alexis’ ‘Feeling My Shelf’ Newsletter: https://www.feelingmyshelfnewsletter.com/ 50 side quests to do this year - https://we.tl/t-gmLxjREKx4 Listen to the For Life’s Rainy Day Playlist Wanna give therapy a try? Use BetterHelp: https://rebrand.ly/6ulm6zk Try The Calm App https://rebrand.ly/21n4tre COMMUNITY CONNECTION FORM: https://forms.gle/m4AD2YaYbGhd8gEv6 Sign Up for our Newsletter! Shop the AFBG Merch! Ask…

What do you think about the sentiment less is more? In this week’s episode Tyra explores the power of doing less — and how that intentional slowing down can lead to more clarity, creativity, and peace. We’ve been taught that rest is something we have to earn, but what if rest is actually the secret to becoming our fullest selves? Through personal stories, gentle reminders, and a few hard truths, Tyra invites you to rethink your relationship with rest and reimagine what productivity can look like when it's rooted in presence instead of pressure. This week’s affirmation is “I choose peace over pressure, and presence over perfection.” 3 Biggest Takeaways from this episode: Rest is not a reward — it’s a right. Taking breaks can boost your creativity and productivity, not block it. If you’re not careful, constantly “doing” can cause you to miss the life you're actually living. Resources Alexis’ ‘Feeling My Shelf’ Newsletter: https://www.feelingmyshelfnewsletter.com/ 50 side quests to do this year -…

Have you ever stopped to think about how you learned love — not through words, but through what you absorbed from the men who raised you? In today’s episode, Tyra explores how our early experiences with father figures — whether tender or tough — shaped our emotional language. Together, we unpack what it means to redefine love on your own terms and give yourself permission to want softness, consistency, and presence. This week’s Affirmation is: “I deserve softness — in how I speak to myself, how I love, and how I’m loved in return.” 3 Biggest Takeaways Love is often absorbed, not taught — and that impacts how we show up emotionally. You’re allowed to crave love that feels emotionally safe, expressive, and affirming. Redefining love for yourself isn’t betrayal — it’s healing. Join The Refill Room: Our Exclusive Subscriber Only Hub https://app.redcircle.com/shows/84f884fe-819e-43b6-b877-ad8ad08f986e/exclusive-content Visit my Food Blog: www.TyrasTable.com Resources Alexis’ ‘Feeling My Shelf’ Newsletter:…

Ever feel like celebration has to be earned? Like you need to hit a big milestone, reach a goal, or have something extraordinary happen before you’re allowed to feel proud? In today’s Pep Talk Wednesday, Tyra is giving you full permission to stop waiting. This episode is all about honoring yourself now — not later. Whether you checked something off your to-do list, showed up for yourself emotionally, or simply made it through the day — that deserves to be seen. Tyra shares why celebration is more than a party — it’s a practice. One that helps you rewrite old narratives, embrace joy in your present, and stop tying your worth to constant achievement. Pep Talk Challenge: Celebrate something this week that no one else can see but you — and do it in a way you haven’t done in a long time. ✨ Maybe it’s your consistency. ✨ Maybe it’s emotional growth. ✨ Maybe it’s getting out of bed when you didn’t feel like it. Whatever it is, honor it on purpose. It doesn’t have to cost a thing — it just has to be meaningful to…

In today’s episode, Tyra is pulling back the curtain on five life-check questions that you should ask yourself before jumping (back) into the dating world. From your relationship with money to your routines and future goals, this is the episode that’ll help you pause and really evaluate whether you’re ready for love—or just longing for a distraction. It’s real, it’s reflective, and a reminder that you're already worthy, with or without a partner. This week’s Affirmation is “ I choose love from overflow, not emptiness.” 3 Biggest Takeaways: Dating from a place of self-abandonment leads to confusion, codependency, and settling for less than you deserve. Building a strong relationship with yourself — your money, body, routines, and goals — lays the foundation for real love. You don’t find yourself in a relationship. You bring yourself into it — whole, clear, and grounded. Try The Calm App https://rebrand.ly/21n4tre Try Class Pass (Get 20 Free Credits) https://classpass.com/refer/ENCD196T4 Resources Alexis’…

In today’s episode, Tyra is joined by Shanika, host of the Scratch Everything podcast, for a real and refreshing conversation about FOMO—the fear of missing out—and how it creeps into our minds, our decisions, and our peace. Together, they explore what it means to truly trust your timing, how to stop comparing your life to the highlight reels you see online, and why chasing alignment will always be more fulfilling than chasing what looks good on paper. Whether you’re in a season of waiting, stuck in a loop of comparison, or just feeling like you’re “behind,” this episode will remind you: you’re exactly where you’re meant to be. Affirmation of the Week: “Joy lives in the present, and that’s where I choose to be.” 🔑 What You’ll Hear: How social media fuels comparison & how to set boundaries Why being “behind” is a myth Learning to say no to distractions that don’t serve your growth What it means to be present in your own timeline Find Shanika: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scratcheverythingpodcast/…

In today’s Pep Talk Wednesday, Tyra opens up about what it means to finally step out of survival mode and into a season of softness. For so long, life was about hustling, stretching every dollar, and just making it through the day. But now? There's space. Space to breathe, space to rest, space to just be. This episode is for the woman who’s noticing that her nervous system is finally calm. She’s walking slower, cooking more, laughing deeper — and realizing that this, too, is a form of success. If you’ve ever felt guilty for slowing down or unsure if you’re “doing enough,” this is your reminder: You’re not thriving because life is perfect — you’re thriving because you’re finally safe. Pep Talk Challenge: Write down some things your younger-you couldn’t even imagine having time or capacity for. Indulge in one of those things this week. Resources Alexis’ ‘Feeling My Shelf’ Newsletter: https://www.feelingmyshelfnewsletter.com/ 50 side quests to do this year - https://we.tl/t-gmLxjREKx4 Listen to the For Life’s…