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This week, we’re joined by the Tiger himself, investigative journalist Fisayo Soyombo, for a fascinating conversation about his work, the dangers of going undercover, his journey to Libya, and the shocking realities of human trafficking. We also get into some of his wildest investigations, what motivates his quest to tell these stories and how his family and friends feel about his adventures. Then it’s time for your dilemmas! From unsupportive mothers and unfortunate bathroom encounters to a boyfriend who’s married to his niece (yes, really). Plus, an update from our unmarried married woman! As always, there’s plenty to unpack. We hope you enjoy this episode brought to you by our friends at Kuda and Busha Busha Busha!!! Want more of the Bounce? Join Gbeborun Central HQ for exclusive content, extra episodes and more: https://link.rivetapp.co/isaidwhatisaidpod Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also save in naira or dollars…

This week, we're joined by Arike Alaso for an episode that takes as many chaotic detours as humanly possible. Before getting into your dilemmas, we dissect why Roblox has the younger generation in an iron-clad chokehold and the existential dread of watching people you used to play outside with become actual, full-blown adults. Then we dive headfirst into your messy entries: from the sheer audacity of a friend dating an abusive ex-fiancé, to an open marriage currently hanging on by a thread and full FBI-level cyberstalking just to find a dating app match on Instagram because swiping right normally was apparently too simple. Arike then tells us about building her fabric business, losing her husband, balancing motherhood with ambition and what’s next for Arike Alaso. As always, there are strong opinions, side quests and plenty of laughs. We hope you enjoy this episode brought to you by our friends at Kuda and Busha! For all your Aso Ebi needs, get in touch with Arike Alaso:…

Ngozi Okonye, Head of Brand and Communications at Busha is on the Bounce this week for a conversation about money, crypto and building better financial habits. We also revisit some of our unfortunate past business ventures, including snail and pig farming, we and take on your money dilemmas. The episode covers tales of a mother spending freely while her daughter picks up the debt, a broke friend with VERY expensive taste and what exactly you’re entitled to take when your married boyfriend goes back to his wife. It’s a good time, as always, and we hope you enjoy this episode, brought to you by our wonderful sponsors at Kuda & Busha Busha Busha! Want more of the Bounce? Join Gbeborun Central HQ for exclusive content, extra episodes and more: https://link.rivetapp.co/isaidwhatisaidpod Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also save in naira or dollars with up to 20% annual interest. Download the Busha App and use the code ISWIS…

This week, we’re joined by the incredibly hilarious and multi-talented Hauwa Lawal for a special 3-hr Agony Aunt episode. Before the dilemmas, we talk about the realities of running a business in Nigeria, Hauwa’s journey into content creation and why we need to be talking about our history a lot more. Then we get into the crazy entries, from friendship boundaries and telling your friend how you really feel about their parenting, to old flames making very inconvenient reappearances and the age-old problem of sleeping with your best friend and accidentally developing feelings. Safe to say, we had quite a lot to work with. As always, there are strong opinions, slightly questionable advice and loads of laughs. We hope you enjoy this episode, brought to you by our friends at Kuda and Busha Busha Busha! Catch up on Hauwa’s Madhouse here: https://youtube.com/@hauwasmadhouse?si=C-otLOLo3iJzf11T Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and…

SHOW NOTES This episode features a real Gen Z baddie, Jaddy of Lagos, founder of Life Studios and The Transformhers, who joins the ladies for a very eventful episode involving fake dreads, the suffering required for beauty, some deeply unserious men and a collection of dilemmas that only get messier as they go. Jaddy also talks about becoming a mother at a young age, her unique relationship with her daughter and family, and what it took to eventually build a life for herself beyond everything she experienced. It’s insightful and deep as always, with plenty to unpack about family, dating, motherhood and starting again, alongside the usual ISWIS detours and opinions. We hope you enjoy this episode, brought to you by our friends at Kuda and Busha! To catch up with Jaddy of Lagos and follow her businesses, find Life Studios at https://www.instagram.com/lifestudioshq and The Transformhers at https://www.instagram.com/theetransformhers. Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and…

This episode features the most detailed City by City Tour recap that you could ever get as the ladies return to Lagos, Nigeria from their globe trotting with riveting tales. Much ado is made about the whiplash of Lagos airport arrivals, the warm welcome of power outage and the joy of faulty plumbing. It is a bittersweet joy ride through long flights, fancy sheets, ghost pepper and the celebration of 9 years of ISWIS excellence that coincided with a record-breaking 7-City International Tour (so far) by your favorite duo. Enjoy this hilarious episode which is brought to you by the good people of Kuda and Busha. Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also save in naira or dollars with up to 20% annual interest. Download the Busha App and use the code ISWIS or visit busha.io to get started! Kuda is a money app that helps you manage your money with less stress. With Kuda Premium, you get cashback on bills, discounts and multiple…

This week, it's just your favourite yappers, doing what they do best! But, before you get excited, we should warn you that this is not a tour recap; we are saving that for when we are back in the studio! This episode is one of those ones when we remind you (and ourselves) that we are graduates, starting off with a long rambling conversation on the dearth of imaginative problem-solving from global leaders (especially in the UK), what happens when finance bros and politics inadvertently conspire to break the talent pipeline and why reality shows get weird after the first two seasons. This week's dilemmas are interesting; a young lady is anxious about her father dying before walking her down the aisle, and another is disappointed in her partner's lack of generosity. It’s fun and full of "insights". We hope you enjoy this amazing episode, brought to you by our friends at Kuda and Busha! Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also…

We’re joined by the extremely talented and hilarious queen, Beverly Adaeze, for a deep dive into her content creation journey, life in the public eye and everything in between. We talk about the constant struggle of never being taken seriously as a funny woman, taking gap years, moving abroad and all the exciting plans she has coming up next. We also unpack internet permanence, cultural differences and after forever, Jola gives a hot take of the week. Plus, Beverly breaks down her disastrously awkward attempt at telling someone they were musty! We hope you enjoy this episode, brought to you by our friends at Kuda and Busha. Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also save in Naira or Dollars with up to 20% annual interest. Download the Busha App and use the code ISWIS or visit busha.io to get started! Kuda is a money app that helps you manage your money with less stress. With Kuda Premium, you get cashback on bills, discounts…

The Bounce is recording live from Houston, Texasss and we’re joined by Gozie Coker, Chief Experience Designer at Coker Creative, for a warm and candid conversation about all things events, reinvention and navigating major life and career changes. We get into the realities of being on tour, America’s almost excessive commitment to hospitality and, of course, parents finding any excuse to ask about marriage. Gozie also takes us through building Coker Creative, relocating, stepping away and eventually finding her way back to the business, while sharing what she’s learned from planning events across the world. We also get into some very complicated dilemmas before closing out with what Gozie is excited about next and her advice for anyone looking to build a career in event planning. We hope you enjoy this episode, sponsored by our amazing friends at Busha and Kuda. We’re going on our biggest tour yet! Get your tickets to our LA show here: https://linktr.ee/theiswispod Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset…

This week, we’re joined by one of our favourite certified achievers, Akinola Davies Jr. Before we get into all things film, we have some spicy entries, including a listener who needs advice on keeping their eyes open during bedroom activities. And yes, apparently this is a very serious problem. Then, we get into Akinola’s journey as a director, and the failures and lessons that have shaped his career so far. Of course, we touched on the incredible reception and success of My Father’s Shadow. It’s fun and full of gems. We hope you enjoy this amazing episode, brought to you by our friends at Gordon’s, Kuda and Busha! We’re going on our biggest tour yet! To join us in Houston, Chicago, Los Angeles or Atlanta, get your tickets here: https://linktr.ee/theiswispod Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also save in naira or dollars with up to 20% annual interest. Download the Busha App and use the code ISWIS or visit busha.io to…

It’s just us this week, and we have A LOT to get into. From beauty maintenance and other tour preparations to matchmaking services and prenuptial agreements, the conversation goes in every possible direction. Our dilemmas this week do not disappoint. We have a dear sister holding on to a marriage built on broken promises, someone struggling to get past the ick and a painful family situation following a devastating loss. Enjoy this soft and sweet episode, brought to you with Advanced Care by our friends at Dove. Dove Advanced 72-Hour Hero SKU moisturizes underarms for softer, smoother skin - Helps achieve a visible improvement with underarm toning in 2 weeks - Provides 72hr sweat and odor protection - Delivers superior care and confidence for everyday use We’re on our biggest tour yet! To join us in New York, Houston, Chicago, Los Angeles or Atlanta, get your tickets here: https://linktr.ee/theiswispod Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love…

This week, we’re joined by the lady of the moment, talented singer-songwriter Solana. We get into her journey as an artist, the success of Okunkun and the gist on what life has been like as one of the industry’s most exciting new artists. As always, the dilemmas give us plenty to unpack, covering everything from spicy texts and building a business with an ex to some very questionable life decisions. We also get into societal expectations and the beliefs we sometimes have to unlearn as we grow. It’s a sweet and entertaining episode from start to finish. We hope you enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at Gordon’s, Kuda and Busha Busha Busha!! We’re currently on tour! Get your tickets here: https://linktr.ee/theiswispod Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also save in naira or dollars with up to 20% annual interest. Download the Busha App and use the code ISWIS or visit busha.io to get started! Kuda is a…

This week, we’re joined by Hilary Taiwo, founder of Hilary Says, for a fun and insightful conversation about skincare, beauty, business and so much more. We answer some serious—and very unserious—skincare questions, break down the basics of building a healthy routine and discuss how to keep your skin healthy as you get older. Hilary also shares the incredible journey behind building Hilary Says. As always, the dilemmas are insane, covering lying in relationships, complicated exes, marriage, difficult family dynamics and everything in between. We hope you enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at HilarySays, Gordon’s, Kuda and Busha! We’re going on our biggest tour yet! Get your tickets here: https://linktr.ee/theiswispod To book a consultation and start your skincare journey. Make sure to visit: https://hilarysays.com Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also save in naira or dollars with up to 20% annual…

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This week, we’re joined by the Most Booked Comedian in Nigeria, Makinde David and we had a very jolly time. We get into his upcoming comedy show, the story behind his title and some very wild moments from his life and career. Our listeners did not disappoint with the dilemmas. We have someone who is convinced their boss is a cultist and another who has somehow become besties with the wife of the man she’s seeing. Prepare to be thoroughly entertained from start to finish. Enjoy this hilarious episode brought to you by our friends at Busha & Kuda Bank We’re going on our biggest tour yet! Get your tickets here: https://linktr.ee/theiswispod Get your tickets to see Most Booked live here: https://usexara.ai/ticket/event/makinde-david? Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also save in naira or dollars with up to 20% annual interest. Download the Busha App and use the code ISWIS or visit busha.io to get started! Kuda is a money…

This week, it’s just us girls. We start off strong with a little chat about water sports which somehow turns into a history lesson. We get into trusting your gut, decentering partners in healthy relationships and some very necessary advice on rejection and getting out of your own head. The dilemmas this week are insane. One listener loves her boyfriend but is starting to question his very intense brand of spirituality. Another listener needs advice for their sister, who is considering putting her dreams on hold to fund her boyfriend’s master’s degree. As always, we wrap things up with wonderful advice and enough laughs to get you through the week. Enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at Gordon’s Gin, Kuda Bank & Busha. We’re going on our biggest tour yet! Get your tickets here: https://linktr.ee/theiswispod Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also save in naira or dollars with up to 20% annual interest.…

This week, we’re joined by Fareedah Abdulsalam, Product Marketing Manager at Busha, to talk about all things money. We get into our personal money problems, the habits we’ve inherited, investing, the concept (or myth?) of building generational wealth and how finances can shape our friendships and romantic relationships. We also get a little delulu about the levels of wealth we’d love to attain. The dilemmas don’t disappoint either. One listener is in serious distress after lending her fiancé $10,000, while another has been paying for everything in her relationship only to receive a prayer for her birthday. It’s a banger as always. Enjoy this special episode brought to you by our friends at Busha! Busha! Busha! Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also save in naira or dollars with up to 20% annual interest. Download the Busha App and use the code ISWIS or visit busha.io to get started! The bounce is going on tour! Get your…

This week, the ladies are joined by Alexis Adelu Sanya-Kawa and Zulu Anyaogu from the Mirabel Centre for a very important conversation on sexual assault, domestic violence and survivor advocacy. As usual, they start the episode with a quick catch-up, dive into a few listener dilemmas, including some exciting updates from previous entries. Alexis and Zulu then guide us through the incredible work the Mirabel Centre has championed over the last 13 years as a sanctuary for survivors. They break down the institutional gaps in the system, the challenges survivors face when seeking help and healing, and the legislative reforms required to ensure lasting protection and justice. This is an eye-opening and deeply insightful episode. Support Mirabel Centre’s amazing work with a donation: https://mirabelcentre.org/donate/ Connect with Mirabel Centre: https://mirabelcentre.org/contact-us/ Enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at Gordon’s & Busha. Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where…

This week, it’s just the girls and they had a timeee. From Nigeria’s endless stress and FK’s hair drama to Jola’s Abuja adventures, the episode quickly goes from ranting to reminiscing. The ladies get into parenting in the age of social media, Nigerian boarding school stories and the very questionable ways adults treated teenage girls experiencing puberty. Unsafe spaces are back this week, along with FK’s glow up mission and hilarious dilemmas to round things off. Enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at Smirnoff Ice & Busha. Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also save in naira or dollars with up to 20% annual interest. Download the Busha App and use the code ISWIS or visit busha.io to get started! Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love reading your posts on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to, leave a review, share…

This week, the ladies are joined by the sensational Chef Demilade Akingbe for a hilarious and completely unfiltered episode. We kick things off with the heavy realities of living in Nigeria and the big debate over whether public figures actually have a responsibility to speak up. Things take an extra chaotic turn as the group gets into sex work, oddly specific turn-offs, and Demilade’s iconic grocery store date. For this week's unhinged dilemmas, we tackle the messy fallout of sleeping with a close friend’s younger sister, and toxic exes who suddenly realize you’re wife material. Finally, Demilade spills all the behind-the-scenes tea on her MasterChef Nigeria journey and shares the exciting things she has cooking next for My Friend’s House. Enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at Busha! Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love reading your posts on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to, leave a review,…

This week, the ladies are joined by Ayanfe for a truly unforgettable episode. We start with a quick catch-up, then get into some dilemmas that go from confusing to completely unhinged. One listener’s husband is refusing to have children until his siblings do, another is grieving her sister while secretly falling in love with the husband she left behind. Then Ayanfe takes us through his incredible life story, from how he first got to Lagos to ending up in an orphanage after an accident. He shares what daily life was like, the relationships he built there and what it took to eventually reconnect with his family. He also opens up about living on the streets with hustling boys and choosing to hold on to his honest craft instead of going back to that life. It is honest, emotional, hilarious and a beautiful reminder of resilience, grace and finding your way back to yourself. Enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at Busha - an SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell and send…

This week, we’re joined by Call of My Life stars Uzoamaka and Andrew, alongside producer Blessing and somehow, we spent the entire episode screaming “God when?” because what we were witnessing was more than the movie. We talk about Arsenal fans creative celebrations and some crazy dilemmas, including a listener who is trying to get his wife to forgive him after his infidelity. We obviously dive right into Nigeria's rom-com of the moment - examining the magic behind the story and how our favourite lovebirds prepared for their roles and like you all, we are left wondering if it's still just acting. We also talk about the major milestones they’ve hit and all the exciting plans they have coming up next. It’s hilarious, sweet and will definitely have you crying for justice for the singles! Enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at Busha; an SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell and send digital assets anywhere in the world. You can also save in Naira or Dollars with up to…

Happy Africa Day boys and girls! For our final special Africa Day series with Facebook, we’re joined by the incredible actress, Osas Ighodaro. Starting with some spicy dilemmas on friendship loyalty, we navigate what to do when you catch your friend’s man cheating and why age gap relationships will always have the group chat divided. Osas takes us through her journey from pageantry to acting, moving back to Nigeria, building a global career and what “Made by Africa, Loved by the World” really means to her. She also shares some tips for young creatives trying to find their own people in this social media age. We hope you enjoy! Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love reading your posts on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to, leave a review, share it with everyone you know, and if you also watch on YouTube, please subscribe, like, and leave a comment! Make sure to follow us on Twitter: @ISWISPodcast Instagram:…

It’s another special Facebook Africa Day episode! Today, we’re joined by the best actor in the world, Tobi Bakre. We start with our usual catch-up and some very juicy dilemmas, including a listener wondering if she should stay in a long-distance relationship and another trying to figure out how to set boundaries with her husband’s family. Tobi tells us all about his journey from reality TV to becoming one of Nollywood’s biggest stars, building a global community with the help of Facebook, how fatherhood changed him, his hopes for African cinema and his dreams for the future. It’s always an amazing time when Tobi is in the house. Enjoy! Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love reading your posts on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to, leave a review, share it with everyone you know, and if you also watch on YouTube, please subscribe, like, and leave a comment! Make sure to follow us on: Twitter: @ISWISPodcast Instagram:…

Surprise! We have a very special episode!!! To celebrate Africa Day with Facebook, we are joined by the amazing, ever-talented Kehinde Bankole. We start with a quick catch-up on what we’ve been getting up to, a little Ibadan gist and some hilarious dilemmas, including what to do when you’re basically bankrolling your boyfriend’s life. Then we get into her incredible career journey, her many talents and side quests (she’s literally a Jill of all trades) and how Facebook has helped her and other African creatives build and connect with their communities globally. It’s insightful, fun and amazing as always. You already know Kehinde is THAT GIRL. Enjoy! Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love reading your posts on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to, leave a review, share it with everyone you know, and if you also watch on YouTube, please subscribe, like, and leave a comment! Make sure to follow us on Twitter: @ISWISPodcast…

This week, the ladies are joined by George, a very hardworking driver with an unforgettable story. We start with our usual weekend recap and then get into the AMVCAs and the proof is in the pudding because coming on the pod is clearly the secret to success. The dilemmas were juicy as always. We advise a listener whose mother’s staff is a little too attached to her, unpack a listener who is married-men-sexual and discuss what to do when your boyfriend is preparing you to be his second wife. George takes us into a completely different world as he opens up about what life in prison is really like. From the rules and politics of living behind bars to the different characters, survival tactics and so many other wild stories, he shares moments that are hilarious, heavy and eye-opening. Enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at Busha. Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also save in naira or dollars with up to…

This week, it’s just the ladies, and they kick things off with a quick recap of their week, then share an important reminder for everyone to sort out their PVCs. Between consumer exploitation, misuse of power and the current cost of living, it’s clear we need change, and this is the first step. They also talk about business owners and people in prominent spaces being more conscious of their public messaging, the impact of their words, and being fair to workers, especially when it comes to benefits. The dilemmas were delivered as always, with some cases where we really couldn’t support these women’s wrongs. They wrap up with a cute game where they answer a lot of questions, from their warning labels and dealbreakers to why people need Yelp reviews. It’s fun, hilarious and amazing as always. Enjoy this special episode brought to you by Busha! Nigerians, we have a really important election next year. Make sure you are registered to vote - https://cvr.inecnigeria.org/ Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast…

This week, we have a special birthday episode for our president, Big Dawg Jollz! The ladies kick things off with a recap of their eventful weekend before getting into the Megan and Klay situation, and honestly, our girl deserved so much better. The dilemmas were delivered as always, with sweet birthday messages for Jola and plenty of interesting entries. This week, they get into feeling like a wife in an insecure relationship, the jealousy that can come with a sibling’s engagement, and constantly coming second to your boyfriend’s baby mum. They also touch on the work behind changing government policies to better protect women. It’s warm, chaotic and very much a Jolly episode. Enjoy! You can catch Zikhona Ndelebe's Difference She Makes Episode here: https://youtu.be/wWdeRqgLeoU?si=Nj9_R9BR-Enrqjyq Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love reading your posts on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to, leave a review, share it with…

This week, FK & Jola are joined by Joel Moses Babatunde, Twitter’s favourite naughty boy, for an episode dedicated to naughty children and all the chaos they bring. From weddings, party costumes and the madness of children’s birthdays, to clowns making kids cry, “wailing as a service”, other deeply unserious career paths, and Oga HR’s childhood escapades, the conversation is ridiculous from start to finish. They also get into quick insights on Odun Longe’s unconventional HR practices, her approach to work, and practical tips for building a healthier, happier workplace culture. The dilemmas also didn’t disappoint, with many of you writing in to confess the truly wild things you did as children. We also got some sad dilemmas about the state of the country and bandits, plus a shocking one about finding out through a DNA test that your father isn’t your biological father. It promises to be a fun and interesting episode, per usual. Enjoy! Nigerians, we have a really important election next year. Make sure you are…

After a fun weekend in Abuja for their friend's wedding, FK & Jola are back to talk about seeing your friends in love, group adventures and the pitfalls of the Nigerian aviation industry, which led them to a hot conversation on the importance of registering to vote. They then spoke about Sibongile Ndashe's work in pushing law beyond intention and into impact, and why that matters for African women, before diving into some spicy dilemmas, including friends taking advantage, closure from situationships, and promiscuous ex-boyfriends. It was an excellent episode, if we do say so ourselves! Enjoy Nigerians, we have a really important election next year. Make sure you are registered to vote - https://cvr.inecnigeria.org/ You can catch the Difference She Makes Episode here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DrjkXvbQU98 Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love reading your posts on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to, leave a…

After weeks of back-to-back bangers with some phenomenal guests, this week FK & Jola are alone on the couch. The episode starts with a recap of their enjoyment-filled Easter weekend (up Jesus), which leads into an interesting conversation on the importance of excellence and innovation in faith-based endeavours - from books to businesses. They then have a conversation about the very real dangers women face on the internet as a result of the lack of regulation around AI usage, especially with the proliferation of deepfakes being used for sexual harassment and slander. The dilemmas this week were a doozy! From a relationship that might have been held together by sex, to navigating friendships as you grow, cohabiting with zero boundaries and long-distance relationships that suddenly start to look appealing for the wrong reasons - there’s a lot to unpack. They round things off with a heated list of icks and as always, it’s chaotic, honest and very funny. Enjoy! Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share…

This week, we have the best actor in the world on the best podcast in the world — Teniola Aladese! We talk about the Super Eagles' ill-timed win against Iran (like PLEASE), the rising cost of living in the country, Teni’s rise to fame in Nollywood and how she structures her career & personal life now as a very prominent actor. We also sort out some juicy dilemmas about infidelity, stealing & mother-daughter trauma (a real trifecta). You know the best episodes are the ones where we have 3 big, beautiful babes so you’re in for a treat! Also, we have a very special scented treat tucked away in the episode, courtesy of our good friends from Beguile By Oma! Shop the most intoxicating scents at beguile.com with our code for 5% off! ISWIS55 Teniola’s outfit, which we loooove is also available on her store @thecoolauntyinc Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love reading your posts on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to, leave a…

This week’s episode takes us on a journey — no, really, we’re joined by Christina and Omolara, who are a bus driver & conductor duo in the city of Lagos. These up-and-doing ladies have done everything from fashion design and trading to selling bush meat, and are now in the transportation business. They take us through what it’s like plying Lagos roads as women, the passengers, heavy taxes and circumstances they have to deal with on a daily basis, while also being mothers and breadwinners for their families. We also discuss the horrendous situation affecting women in Ozoro currently and the worsening safety conditions women have to deal with in Nigeria. Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love reading your posts on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to, leave a review, share it with everyone you know, and if you also watch on YouTube, please subscribe, like, and leave a comment! Make sure to follow us on Twitter: @ISWISPodcast…

In honor of Mother’s Day and The Good Hair Day (a day we made up because this episode is brought to you by our friends at L’Oréal Professionnel Paris 🤭), we bring to you a rocking episode from the studios of The Married & Unmarried. This week’s episode features our favorite thing: Women! Feyi Bello rejoins us to talk about women, our potential millions, our hair care and motherhood. She takes us through the journey of motherhood, post partum expression and maintaining her individuality after becoming a mother. We also talk about body dysmorphia, loving your body at every stage of your life, caring for every part of yourself (because sometimes we forget our hair while caring for our wigs), and settling down for marriage but not settling for just anything. Our faves at L’Oréal Professionnel also made this a fun episode because we have a joint giveaway coming up this week and you get to win not just products but for online shoppers, also a free salon consultation! Make sure you stay locked in to our socials to…

This week’s episode is what the kids like to call a “deep cut”. It’s 3 hours with the one and only Mimi Abudu (yes, the same Abudu you know). We dive into the conversation of being whimsical just for the plot, gems on building real confidence and trust in yourself/your gut. She also talks about knowing when it’s time to pivot, what to avoid when making big life changes, and how to be a successful rebel as you create the life you truly want. We also get into some deeply unserious and quite serious dilemmas about a financially cursed husband and an infidelity-cursed husband — there’s a pattern, it seems. We hope you enjoy! Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love reading your posts on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to, leave a review, share with everyone you know, and if you also watch on YouTube, please subscribe, like, and leave a comment! Make sure to follow us on Twitter: @ISWISPodcast Instagram: @isaidwhatisaidpod…

This week, we’re joined by Dami a.k.a Celebrity Waitress & Eunice a.k.a Demure Waitress, who are nightlife/club waitresses in Nigeria! They take us behind the scenes of what it’s like to work at a popular Lagos club, and everything you didn’t expect while working a 9-5 (we mean 9pm to 5am). From getting huge tips in foreign currency to getting slapped by club-goers 😭. We got the inside scoop on working in the service industry and people’s perceptions of women working in Nightlife, especially in Lagos. We also helped out with some deeply unserious dilemmas concerning morning or nighttime sex (pick your fighter), feeling irritated that your partner got scammed out of 3 million and feeling left out of a friendship even though you communicate consistently. Enjoy! Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love reading your posts on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to and leave a review, share with everyone you know, and if you also…

This week’s episode is what we like to call a meandering banger. We can’t explain how we started the conversation from the idolization of religious leaders and ended up at sexual grief (you’ll get it when you listen). We also talked about our thoughts from the last episode and some of your opinions on our lovely co-wives. Most importantly, we spoke about what we’d do if we won the lottery, because who doesn’t love a bit of delusion? We’re also pleased to say we had not 1 or 2, but 3 unsafe spaces in this episode (it’s back, baby!), and you just have to listen to find out what they are. Enjoy!!! Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love reading your posts on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen on, leave a review, share with everyone you know, and if you also watch on YouTube, please subscribe, like, and leave a comment! Make sure to follow us on Twitter: @ISWISPodcast Instagram: @isaidwhatisaidpod Youtube: @isaidwhatisaidpod…

Welcome to the inaugural episode of The Real Co-wives of Lagos City! Our first guests of the season are co-wives, married to the same husband and living in the same household. What happens when your husband brings you a (pregnant) co-wife? We get into what it’s really like in a polygamous household and how it even began in the first place. We also learn how our co-wives manage tensions, children, sharing one man, and their personal relationship dynamics. We start off the episode with some really juicy dilemmas about marriage, but only under the conditions of relocation, dating as a plus-size woman and deciding to get married (or not) if you’re really broke. Enjoy! Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love reading your posts on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to, leave a review, share with everyone you know, and if you also watch on YouTube, please subscribe, like, and leave a comment! Make sure to follow us on Twitter:…

You know what rhymes with 2026? ISWIS! We’re back with a bang for season 8! In the first episode of the year, we discuss whether New Year's resolutions are in or out, and somehow we end up complaining about the Nigerian experience (as usual). We talk about our super fun holidays and the need to add more whimsy and enjoyment in life — maybe that’s our actual New Year's resolution. We also discuss the need to reduce pleasantries or niceties and actually chat with people to find out how they’re really doing. And of course, the 2026 dilemmas are really juicy! When will you guys actually change? We get into dating siblings, using someone to secure a visa, feeling jealous towards someone else’s success and the possibility of your parent cheating on their spouse! We’re really looking forward to doing 2026 with you, and we have so much planned, so enjoy! Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love reading your posts on X! Rate the show 5 stars on…

Ladies & Gents, welcome to our last episode of season 7. We’ve had such a fantastic run with you all yet again, and this season ends on a high note. We discussed all the fun activities we’re getting up to this month, and how our year has truly felt from January to December. This led us to reflect on the areas we want to improve in 2026, including supporting our friends with their children. We talked about becoming better support groups for parents, getting married SOON so we can receive free transfer (wife privileges), and some really juicy dilemmas about loving someone even though they’re cheating and your partner hating your weight gain (crazy). But we’re so thankful to all of you and all the brands who worked with us this year. See you in a bigger and badder place come 2026. We love you! We also wanted to let guys know we’ll be going to see J Hus at Music City Central, and you should get your tickets right hurrr! https://url-shortener.me/2MDO The Big Bounce Bash (December 21st) tickets are still up for…

What time is it? Christmas time, so it’s our vacation! Just kidding, we might have one or two more fun releases for you guys before the end of the year. It’s just us in the studio this week, and we talk about our December plans (we can’t wait to leave Lagos, of course)… It’s also an intense & thought-provoking episode in which we discuss the erosion of real community, friendship, and communal life. We also discuss how impossible it is to solve our societal (and national) issues because of government irresponsibility, rather than individual apathy. We wrap up the episode with some truly interesting (derogatory) dilemmas: thinking your partner is razz & uncultured, and having a friend who secretly hates you. By the way, we also wanted to let guys know we’ll be going to see J Hus at Music City Central, and you should get your tickets right hurrr! https://url-shortener.me/2MDO The Big Bounce Bash (December 21st) tickets are still up for sale at https://tix.africa/bounce-bash-25 Don't forget to use #ISWIS or…

This week, we are joined by a fabulous guest, Tai of Foodie in Lagos, who’s an equally hilarious babe. We talk about the rite of passage of pranking your siblings, how dealing with grief never gets easier, and how kids are never taught traditions and the reasons behind them, but are expected to obey them completely. We also get into how Tai started a successful food blog through her BlackBerry Messenger status, which has now grown into a community of 60,000+ people! There’s also some really juicy dilemmas about teenage pregnancy, transitioning from friends to lovers and how to handle leeches in the form of friends who keep taking advantage of you. Our friends at Coca-Cola also have the juiciest offers to win N250 million in prizes if you buy a 50cl Coke, Scan the QR code & Share! Visit https://www.coca-cola.com/ng/en/offerings/share-a-coke to see how you too can win! The Big Bounce Bash (December 21st) tickets are still up for sale at https://tix.africa/bounce-bash-25 And you absolutely should go to the…

We’re joined by a very unassuming guest, someone you wouldn’t know is a very big amebo but that’s exactly how we like it. We have Ugo from our key helpers, Bamboo!!! We talk about our favorite shows and the battle of the streaming sites (we all know Apple TV wins). We also recap the sweetness that was the Abuja Live show, and we want to thank you again for all the love and gifts!! If you missed it, ntor 🤭. This episode is sponsored by situationships round the world, you really keep everyone on their feet. We also get into changing friendship dynamics when one person makes more money than the other and what to do when your friend slutshames your mother (you read that right). Enjoy!! Also, don’t forget to get your tickets to the Lagos live show and party on Friday, before they’re sold out! Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to and leave a review, share with everyone you know and if you also…

We hope your 'undies' weren't in a bunch as a result of our absence last week because what was missing last week has been made up for this week. After a glimpse into FK's new high-level hobby to set things off, the ladies of ISWIS explore, travel and the importance of preserving Nigerian culture. Joined by Dimma Umeh as she graces us for her 4th feature on the pod, (Yes, it's her 4th time) this episode is a history exchange class coupled with top tier comedy and an analysis of a unique marital dilemma to help out the head of a home - amongst other things. If the word “moist” irks your soul or you've been faced with an unrequited love declaration situation, then this 3-hour episode will absolutely thrill you. Enjoy the musings of the three friends who are reunited in an absolutely hilarious episode. Join FK & Jola on their Samsung journey and discover the brand-new range of Samsung Foldables. Shop at https://www.samsung.com/africa_en/storelocator/ Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your…

This week, Jola & FK are alone on the couch as they discuss the state of the nation (are you ready for a Trump-led invasion?), Lagos Fashion Week, and whatever is in the air making many people ill. They then provide excellent, bad advice to a number of you struggling with everything from gluttonous talking stages to bigoted parents. We hope this episode makes you think deeply & laugh even more. As always, let us know your thoughts, and enjoy! Join FK & Jola on their Samsung journey and discover the brand-new range of Samsung Foldables. Shop at https://www.samsung.com/africa_en/storelocator/ Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on X! Rate the show 5 stars on your preferred app and leave a review. Please share it with everyone you know. If you also watch on YouTube, subscribe, like, and leave a comment! Choose Bolden products for all your skincare needs, just as we do! They're available at Medplus Pharmacy locations, Nectar Beauty, Beauty Hut &…

This week’s episode is sponsored by God’s grace. Jola & FK are joined by Blessing Omakwu, the CEO of The She Tank, a gender-equality evangelist, and a really knowledgeable theologian. The girls get into the dicey topic of balancing one’s faith and feminism; if these concepts are entirely antithetical to one another, OR if religious text is actually more feminist than we believe. They shed light on our favourite Bible stories and on how much nuance is required in the pursuit of Christ. They also tackle some really dicey dilemmas about a couple who co-own a thriving business. Still, one half always takes all the credit, and the dynamics of growing up in a home with separated parents. We hope this episode makes you think deeply & laugh even more. As always, let us know your thoughts, and enjoy! Join FK & Jola on their Samsung journey and enjoy the brand new range of Samsung Foldables. Shop at https://www.samsung.com/africa_en/storelocator/ Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while…

The girls are very demure this week as they’re joined by Bimpe of On The Rocks With B! Bimpe talks about being an entrepreneur who runs no1, not 2 but 3 (almost 4) businesses. She also talks about building a business in a male-dominated field, how she became an entrepreneur at 20 & why she hasn’t stopped since university. Then they get into their thoughts on facial dysmorphia, being boxed as an extremely ambitious woman and working towards your dreams rather than just thinking or complaining about them. There’s something for everyone in this episode because they also talk about what to do when you’re in a rut or are depressed and how to change your life, brick by brick. We hope you enjoy! Join FK & Jola on their Samsung journey and enjoy the brand new range of Samsung Foldables. Shop at https://www.samsung.com/africa_en/storelocator/ Choose Bolden products for all your skincare needs like we do! They're available at Medplus Pharmacy locations, Nectar Beauty, Beauty Hut & Teeka4! For US, UK & Canada, shop at…

This week’s episode is for the girls - fitting, since International Day of The Girl Child just passed by. We are joined by Malala Yousafzai, a Pakistani female education activist, who reminds us the importance of education, community, structure and balance for every girl, everywhere in the world. She gets real about the pressures and life differences in being Malala the activist vs Malala the woman. She also shares some (extremely peaceful) advice on dilemmas about a girl who built her family business from the ground-up, only to be pushed out, and another who believes her siblings hate her. It’s thoughtful, peaceful and very for the girls 🧡 Join FK & Jola on their Samsung journey and enjoy the brand new range of Samsung Foldables. Shop at https://www.samsung.com/africa_en/storelocator/ Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to and leave a review, share with everyone you know and if you also watch…

This week, we have the one and only Big Fish, Adekunle Gold, on the pod. We discuss the new album, how he secured some OGs, such as Yinka Ayefele, to work on the project alongside him, and also the true inspiration behind this new project. Adekunle takes us through his thought process and unique approach from album to album, which we think makes him a true artiste versus some of your favourites. AG also offers singles some dating advice (as a married man with necessary relationship certifications) and some business advice as well. We talk about our personal favourite songs on the album, and he also drops some Easter eggs in the episode about upcoming performance dates and news to expect regarding the album, so you'd better tune in. Enjoy!! Join FK & Jola on their Samsung journey and discover the brand-new range of Samsung Foldables. Shop at https://www.samsung.com/africa_en/storelocator/ Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on X! Rate the show 5…

HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY! This week’s episode is very Power Puff Girl coded; FK & Jola are joined by Tosin, a Misan by Bamboo top user who’s a makeup artist and business mogul. They start off chatting about moving apartments, an insane birthday night at Zaza featuring a giraffe and then tackle some very interesting dilemmas about parents prioritizing other people’s feelings & wellbeing over their own children, weighing the cost of birthday gifts given and received, and the crucial choice of leaving your 9to5 to become an entrepreneur. They segue into parenting, discipline and learning life lessons on your own as a teenager. Enjoyyy this long, special, life-saving episode brought to you By Misan By Bamboo! Join FK & Jola on their Samsung journey and enjoy the brand new range of Samsung Foldables. Shop at https://www.samsung.com/africa_en/storelocator/ Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to and…