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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! They never miss a Love Is Blind season, and today they're excited to unpack BOSTON with you! Today Shandy is breaking down the grand FINALE, aka Episode 12!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP!- Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off on home and sleepwear!- Go to https://uncommongoods.com/SHANDY to get 15% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:40 - Episode 1217:04 - Aneha & Cam Wedding36:30 - Sarah & John Wedding58:23 - Shandy’s Predictions1:04:39 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook -…

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 8.Time stamps...0:00 - Housekeeping2:08 - Episode 828:54 - Round Table42:08 - Shandy’s PredictionsSharleen is wearing:- sweater: https://bit.ly/4ieKBubIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! They never miss a Love Is Blind season, and today they're excited to unpack BOSTON with you! Today Shandy is breaking down Batch 3, aka Episodes 9-11.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://AirDoctorPro.com and use code SHANDY for up to $300 off ANY AirDoctor plus a free 3-year warranty!- Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop Sharleen’s favorite bras, underwear and loungewear!- Go to https://jonesroadbeauty.com and use code SHANDY for a FREE full sized Mascara on your first purchase!- Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:45 - Episode 945:08 - Episode 101:29:47 - Episode 111:46:22 - Shandy’s Predictions1:51:34 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube!…

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 7.Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!Time stamps...0:00 - Housekeeping1:22 - Episode 737:54 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! They never miss a Love Is Blind season, and today they're excited to unpack BOSTON with you! Today Shandy is breaking down Batch 2, aka Episodes 6-8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://AquaTru.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your purifier!- Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://trykepos.com/SHANDY to receive 47% off your first order PLUS free gifts valued at $62!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:21 - Episode 634:04 - Episode 71:05:30 - Episode 81:27:30 - Shandy’s Predictions1:28:45 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind Netherlands, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the REUNION, aka Episode 10.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off on home and sleepwear!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:24 - Reunion1:03:20 - Best Dressed1:04:07 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 6.Time stamps...0:00 - Housekeeping3:37 - Episode 635:14 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind Netherlands, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the grand FINALE, aka Episode 9.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!Referenced Reddit thread:https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix/comments/1wyewzw/mika_posts_her_perspective_on_jurriaans_comments/Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:54 - Finale10:25 - Yasemin & Miguel’s Wedding Day25:02 - Mika & Jurriaan Wedding Day39:39 - Shandy’s Predictions40:09 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! They never miss a Love Is Blind season, and today they're excited to unpack BOSTON with you! Today Shandy is breaking down Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-5.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP!- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your night guard!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:42 - Episode 128:19 - Episode 245:12 - Episode 31:05:20 - Episode 41:27:05 - Episode 51:37:31 - Shandy’s Predictions1:45:05 - Who We Would Go ForSharleen is wearing:- cardigan & pants: https://fabletics.com/SHANDY (sign up as a new VIP for 70-80% off)If you have a relationship question, write us at:…

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 5.Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off on home and sleepwear!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time stamps...0:00 - Housekeeping0:56 - Episode 527:23 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind Netherlands, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Batch 2, aka Episodes 6-8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://AirDoctorPro.com and use code SHANDY for up to $300 off ANY AirDoctor plus a free 3-year warranty!- Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!- Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:50 - Episode 635:00 - Episode 71:04:30 - Episode 81:25:35 - Shandy’s Predictions1:26:13 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram -…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind Netherlands, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-5.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first system!- Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://oakessentials.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:04 - Episode 117:11 - Episode 228:07 - Episode 341:27 - Episode 457:20 - Episode 51:18:24 - Shandy’s Predictions1:20:29 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram -…

It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 6 years old, and what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, Ruby, and everything in between! Thank you, Shandies, for 6 WHOLE YEARS of laughs, kinship and community. We absolutely adore you! Come join us in our living room to chat!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite bras and underwear at https://www.skims.comPrevious Anniversary Q&As...1-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/r_ZxevOVS9o?si=e00pKFmKXxXcN4GE2-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/OyAa9zSvvvo?si=ZwnQzIo_hGQ9BUvC3-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/a_qIhKlUj0k?si=li3AirGKtYteOJrS4-Year Anniversary Q&A:…

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 3 & 4.Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off on home and sleepwear!- Go to https://trykepos.com/SHANDY to receive 47% off your first order PLUS free gifts valued at $62!Time stamps...0:00 - Housekeeping0:50 - Episode 323:35 - Episode 459:22 - Best DressedIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions!You're dating a guy but can't tell if the pit in your stomach is dread or butterflies... is it your anxiety or the infamous Ick? You regret agreeing to being your childhood friend's Maid Of Honor. Is it ever OK to back out of the role? You're a devoted daughter but your dreams extend beyond your duty. Between the crushing guilt and the desire to break free, which one wins? You're a mom of two young men and worry about their dating prospects—Shandy weighs in on your worries! Finally, you're married with kids but find yourself enjoying flirty banter with a co-worker. Is a workplace crush harmless fun or playing with fire? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.A special thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off…

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 1 & 2.Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://AquaTru.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your purifier!- Go to https://warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs!- Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first system!Time stamps...0:00 - Housekeeping2:06 - Episode 118:26 - Episode 239:53 - Who Shandy Has Their Eye OnSharleen is wearing:- sweater dress: https://bit.ly/3VENco7 (use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order)If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See…

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by lovely caller Dani who has been dating a guy for 6 months. Except... she's never actually met him?? Was he never interested enough to progress things further, or was she too guarded? Listen on for the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions!Thanks to our sponsors....- Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!- Go to https://trykepos.com/SHANDY to receive 47% off your first order PLUS free gifts valued at $62!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Dani!47:28 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram -…

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions!You're happily married with kids but you carry a secret from a decade ago, before starting a family. Is it worth rocking the boat to tell the truth all these years later? If you like your coworker but hate how she ALWAYS cuts you off, what's the best way to fix her social faux-pas? Your mother-in-law keeps cornering you to trauma dump—how do you draw the line between devoted daughter-in-law and de facto therapist? And what to do when you can't stop crushing on your best friend's dashing boyfriend? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.A special thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off on home and sleepwear!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the Reunion, aka Episode 11.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!Time stamps...0:00 - Housekeeping1:43 - Ciara & Ajay10:33 - Cuba & Ryan22:23 - Sophie & Taylor26:20 - Francesca & Joseph29:35 - Yasmin & Jordan34:18 - Faye & Jack44:14 - Reviewing Shandy’s Predictions 45:41 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram -…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the grand Finale, aka Episodes 9 & 10.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off!Time stamps...0:00 - Housekeeping2:20 - Episode 929:53 - Episode 1058:00 - Shandy’s Reunion Predictions1:02:04 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 5-8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 55% off your new night guard from now until the end of August with Remi Club Subscribe & Save!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today!Time stamps...0:00 - Housekeeping2:34 - Episode 520:57 - Episode 656:50 - Episode 71:14:42 - Episode 81:33:02 - Shandy’s Predictions1:40:21 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog -…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-4.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off!- Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box and one free breakfast per box for one year!- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:31 - Episode 122:42 - Episode 237:16 - Episode 357:11 - Episode 41:04:41 - Ibiza1:09:54 - Shandy’s Predictions1:12:52 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube!…

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You're excited to move in with your boyfriend, however, the geographical and financial benefits are impossible to ignore—is your judgment being clouded by the perks? You're a Gandy and your girlfriend looks young... TOO young. Is your self-consciousness warranted? Your wedding guest came but didn't send a gift—is it acceptable to ask about the gift, and if not, do you still need to write a Thank You card? Your social life has taken a hard hit by your post-COVID anxiety—what is Shandy's advice? Finally, you love your boyfriend but your parents do not—whose side should you choose? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.A special thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional…

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Monica Payne and Luke Wesselhoff from Season 4 of Netflix's The Ultimatum!Today Luke and Monica give us a peek behind The Ultimatum curtain: what didn't we see on the show, and just how accurate (or inaccurate) was their edit? We talk growth on and off the show, navigating the public's assumptions, their high school personas, their first kiss, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a Newlyweds Game that proves these two go waaaay back! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off!- Go to https://skims.com/shandy to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear!- Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://oakessentials.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!More Monica:Instagram -…

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your friend regularly makes passive aggressive digs about your childfree-by-choice lifestyle, is a confrontation in order? How can you navigate your in-laws' past financial issues becoming YOUR future problem? If he ends it because of his father's diagnosis, is that a sign you should wait, or is the illness a red herring? And what to do if you love your guy but hate his vegetarianism? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.A special thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 55% off your night guard!- Go to https://quince.com/shandy…

Content note: This episode contains discussion of alleged domestic violence and may be difficult for some listeners. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, help is available through the National Domestic Violence Hotline by calling 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or texting START to 88788. Please listen with care and skip this episode if needed.This week, we're joined by Blake Robertson, whom many viewers know from The Ultimatum. Since his time on the show, Blake has also been the subject of public allegations of domestic violence—a topic that understandably evokes strong emotions and one we strived to approach with care in this conversation.Our goal with this interview is not to tell listeners what conclusions to draw, nor to minimize the seriousness of domestic violence. Rather, we believe difficult conversations are best approached thoughtfully, with honesty, attention to detail, and room for nuance. In this episode, we ask Blake the questions many viewers have had since the allegations…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down the Finale and Reunion for Season 4!*** This episode discusses domestic assault. Please listen with care. ***Thanks to our lovely sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:51 - Episode 9/Finale13:43 - Episode 10/Reunion59:43 - Reviewing Predictions 1:00:18 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram -…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down episodes 5-8 of Season 4!*** Note: This episode was recorded before news dropped about one contestant getting arrested for assault **Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box and free daily greens per box!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:26 - Episode 536:46 - Episode 649:33 - Episode 71:11:13 - Episode 81:34:09 - Predictions1:38:13 - Who We Would Go ForReferenced NYT article: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/07/17/well/couples-therapists-fight-advice.htmlIf you have a relationship question, write us at:…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down episodes 1-4 of Season 4! Stay tuned for your recap of episodes 5-8 dropping later.Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:06 - Episode 127:49 - Episode 243:19 - Episode 31:13:45 - Episode 41:36:09 - Predictions1:37:01 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram -…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 6 & the FINALE of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs!- Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase!- Go to https://www.ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today!- Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsor!- Go to https://furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping6:10 - Episode 3228:23 - Episode 3332:31 - Episode 34 (AfterSun)35:39 - Episode 351:05:46 - Predictions1:10:09 - Shandy Word Watch1:11:28 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube!…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 5 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.skims.com/shandy to shop Sharleen's favorite Bras and Underwear!- Go to https://zazzle.com to get 25% off your first order!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors!- Go to https://furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:20 - Episode 2624:02 - Episode 2736:24 - Episode 2951:18 - Episode 301:13:55 - Episode 311:28:29 - Predictions1:29:10 - Shandy Word Watch1:31:41 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on…

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers! Our first caller, Emily, has just been dumped by the first guy in ages she's thought could be The One. After years of dating and actively putting herself out there, she's downright defeated. What happened? And more importantly, WHERE IS HE?! Our second caller, Ryan, has an unpopular choice for her bridal party. Should she overcome her family's judgment, or is it simply better to keep the peace? Listen on for the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions!Thanks to our sponsors....- Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Emily!36:40 - Shandy Debrief41:30 - Welcome To Caller Ryan!1:00:15 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question,…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 4 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off!- Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs!- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother!- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://lolablankets.com and use code SHANDY for 40% off!Referenced reel: https://www.instagram.com/reels/DaF_-BWgjsZ/Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:16 - Episode 2015:36…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 3 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!- Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off!Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors!- Go to https://lolablankets.com and use code SHANDY for 40% off!- Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your $75+ purchase!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:57 - Episode 1424:00 - Episode 1531:49 - Episode 1753:10 - Episode 181:04:50 - Episode 191:21:38 - Predictions1:23:11 - Shandy Word Watch1:26:38 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship…

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Several friends never respond to your texts—Is this the new social norm, or are you doing something wrong? If you put your foot in your mouth on an early date, is there any recovering? The guy you like *seems* interested but never makes a move—does Shandy still stand by the old adage "If He Wanted To, He Would"? And if you love your fiancé but his flatulence is a damper on the romance, what to do?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.A special thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:24 - Q1: Our Texts To Friends Are Going Unanswered—Is This Normal? 21:34 - Q2: I…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 2 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://poshmark.com/SHANDY to get $10 off your first purchase!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit!- Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your $75+ purchase!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:49 - Episode 811:54 - Episode 935:25 - Episode 1153:57 - Episode 121:09:56 - Episode 131:21:14 - Predictions1:22:29 - Shandy Word…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 1 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://zazzle.com for 25% off your first order!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsor!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:51 - Episode 122:35 - Episode 231:32 - Episode 339:55 - Episode 458:27 - Episode 51:09:37 - Episode 61:18:22 - Episode 71:29:20 - Predictions1:31:29 - Shandy Word Watch1:35:09 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and…

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you loathe your brother's girlfriend's "Influencer" Instagram, are you just being judgy or should you warn him of red flags? If your friend's financial situation has gotten difficult, is it wise to loan her money? If you found your husband's top secret stash, starring a surprising main character, what should you do? And if your boyfriend is loyal and loving but you have a secret fantasy, is it worth it to risk it all for the Unknown? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.A special thank you to our sponsors...- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/shandy!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!Time…

Today Shandy is delighted to welcome the (co-)WINNER of Netflix's Perfect Match Season 4, the one and only Dave Hand! We watched Dave leave the show hand-in-hand with Sophie... so what *really* happened? Today Dave explains the truth behind the breakup, who from the cast is the most misunderstood, and how his life has changed in the aftermath of TWO reality shows. Most importantly, Shandy learns the thought process that goes into getting a neck tattoo! We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too! #netflix #perfectmatchThanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!More Dave:- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dth_9- TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@davethomas9Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Dave Hand!3:20 - What Happened With Sophie9:08 - Who From Perfect Match Is Most Misunderstood?15:36 - Did He Feel A Cultural Difference On The Show?21:09 - Life After TV24:46 - What Is…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, and today they're breaking down the grand FINALE!Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://poshmark.com/shandy to get $10 off your first purchase!- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of goodwipes at Walmart!- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother!- Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:45 - Finale Kick Off25:00 - “Perfect Match” Crowning Ceremony44:19 - Surprise Couple47:15 - Final Thoughts & Predictions49:44 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube!…

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you and your longtime platonic friend have been secretly crushing on each other, is it now or never to make a move, even if he's started dating someone new? (Speak now or forever hold your peace?) If your friend has volunteered YOU to help her move, can you worm your way out of it, or is it best to roll up your sleeves and help? And what can be done if your partner of 16 years has become a moody grump? Can people actually change, or must you grin and bear it? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our lovely sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shsandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://dupe.com and tell it what you’re looking to buy!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 6-7! Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:06 - Episode 633:53 - Episode 71:12:15 - Shandy's Predictions1:14:44 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram -…

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-5! Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Buy 1 pair of prescription glasses and get 20% off any additional prescription pairs at https://warbyparker.com/SHANDY- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:16 - Episode 126:10 - Episode 235:32 - Episode 356:14 - Episode 41:07:53 - Episode 51:19:11 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear…

Today Shandy is joined by fellow podcasters and dating advice givers, Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham from the U Up? Podcast! They chat the most common themes they see in the questions they receive, whether or not dating today is *actually* worse (or if we're just talking about it more), and what it's like to date when you're famous! Watch on for two relationship podcasts' (sometimes very different!) perspectives on apps and modern romance.Thanks to our sponsors:- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!More Jordana & Jared:- The U Up? Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/u.up.podcast- Jordana: https://www.instagram.com/jordanaabraham- Jared:…

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your best friend puts zero thought into setting you up with her husband's friend, is that a slight or are you just sensitive? If your boyfriend's new hobby involves regularly "borrowing" your ideas, is it weird to be annoyed or is just a case of "sharing is caring"? At what age is OK to stop sending your nieces and nephews money? And if a family member is addicted to making AI-generated photos of your family, is it worth the awkwardness of saying something? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother!- Go to https://Ollie.com/SHANDY and use code…

*Special Announcement*Dear Shandy will be moderating Amy's Book Launch Event in NYC on May 5th, 2026! For more info visit: https://luma.com/unsingleIt's not every day we bring back a Hot Topic guest, but when Amy Chan writes a new book, YOU BRING HER BACK. Dubbed the “scientific Carrie Bradshaw” by The Observer, Amy is a relationship expert, author, and founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and Dating Bootcamp, retreats that apply a scientific, psychological approach to healing heartbreak and rewiring dating patterns. It has been 4.5 years since we first had Amy on, and now with her new book, "Unsingle: How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts" (April 28, 2026), she shares the science of rewiring your brain to actually find success in your love life. Today Amy chats your unconscious patterns, how being otherwise "high-achieving" is working against you, and at what leg in the "Dating Funnel" you're getting stuck. We promise you'll never see dating the same way again after hearing Amy's insights. Watch on to…

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you love your husband but find his career boring AF, should you feign interest to spare his feelings, or be 100% honest about your disinterest? Is it acceptable to become close friends with your best friend's partner, even if your best friend doesn't approve? Has Shandy ever dated anyone who brought out the worst in them, and what are their thoughts on "breadcrumbing" in dating? Finally, if your date regularly brings you the ugliest flowers you've ever seen, does that speak to a deeper compatibility and "taste" issue? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!-…

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering Temptation Island, Season 10 (or Season 2 in the Netflix era)! Today Shandy breaks down the second half of the season, episodes 6-9! #temptationisland #netflix #temptationislandnetflixThank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of prescription glasses and get 20% off any additional prescription pairs!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:02 - Episode 635:28 - Episode 748:33 - Episode 81:01:15 - Episode 91:23:46 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy…

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering Temptation Island, Season 10 (or Season 2 in the Netflix era)! Today Shandy breaks down the first half of the season, episodes 1-5! #temptationisland #netflix #temptationislandnetflixThank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://monos.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for the latest offer!- Go to https://poshmark.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for $10 off your first purchase!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:22 - Episode 120:29 - Episode 232:09 - Episode 346:55 - Episode 41:13:56 - Episode 51:29:41 - Predictions1:30:46 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear…

Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the REUNION!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother!- Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first system!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:49 - Libby & Andrew8:27 - Vanelle & Jorge14:59 - Pfeifer & Derrick17:02 - Theresa & John34:09 - Leah & Chris42:06 - Vanessa & Logan46:15 - Best Dressed46:36 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine -…